Wow , it's been months since I actually blogged , huh ?
Last post , June , so not me . I used to be such a frequent blogger ..
Well , I guess things have been harsh recently , school's been though nowadays . Especially when 'O'Level is reaching . I didn't quite believe that it'll be stressful though , now I've felt it . It's not something that one would love to go through , unless your somebody who ignores your school work ..
Problems . So many different types of them . The most that I went through recently can be classified under FRIENDSHIPS . It can then be split into different categories , lol .
1. Misunderstanding
2. Miscommunications
3. Trust
4. Big mouth
Now , I got to be careful about people around me . I'm sorry , but even the closer ones .. What I went through wasn't pleasant . But I realised that I wasn't the only one who went through these . Not exactly the same , but similar enough , I shall not name any .
#1 .
Misunderstandings . People do have moodswings , especially we girls . Which is something so annoying .. Our actions tend to sway with our moods . So sometimes , what we say , what we do , may not be something on purpose . It may be due to moodswings , PMS or whatever other reasons . However , it may be all these that caused the misunderstandings . It's one the of the most common things people faced , lol . When misunderstandings come in , people gets angry , people get irritated and frustrated , and then maybe quarrel .. Well , all these may not happen if people are more understanding , and more forgiving . It's something that I'm trying so hard now ..
#2
Miscommunications . Well , it's not exactly a word but still , yah .. When messages , gossips are whatever are passed around , from one to the other , the message will most of the times differ from the original .. But why ? It was such a clear cut insult when it was passed to me , but it wasn't what the first party meant . True or false ? I've no idea ..
#3
Trust . Trust is something so fragile . And right now , it's impossible for me to trust people easily . Maybe in the near future , but right now , NO . I'm very caution now .. People tend to give their promise for some benefits they might get . For example :
A : ' Eh , tell me ley ! I won't tell people derh . '
B : ' You sure ? '
A : ' Yah yah yah , tell me . '
B : * says something *
A : ' Woa , that person very what sia . '
( Few moments later )
A : ' Eh , you know just now B say blah blah blah ..... '
Secret revealed .. Idiot .
#4
Big mouth . People ALWAYS judge , no matter what . Lol . But , I don't mind if people judge . Girls tend to gossip , but to me gossips are fine . Don't go way too far ! AND ! Don't be a big mouth -.- I HATE IT . Example :
* A group talking *
A : Huh ? REALLY UH ?
B : Yah larh .. blah blah blah ~
A : Serious uh ?
Whole group : * Commenting *
( Days later )
A : Eh , you know they all say that blah blah blah ~
C : Judge larh ! Whatever ..
It's not like people don't gossip . If you wanna listen , then better get this straight , It's within us . Not anyone out of this clique . Idiot. It's not like you've made no comments .. This is not the way to spoil people's friendship . People will complain , just let that person complain then . Why is your mouth so huge ?
So , basically , because of all these , many of me and my friend's friendship had problems . It all came at the same time . So what ? One mastermind behind all these ? I don't understand . Well , it won't rain forever (: And I'm glad . I'm learning how to dance in the rain now , not to complain about the rain . After all those bullshit , and crap that human created ..
It's getting draggy and long winded .. I shall end off .
Stop all the crap you are doing . It's scary . Are you with us or not ? Make your stand clear . Don't be the 4 kind of person .
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